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About This Site Updated October 9, 2009   Simply being the biological father of a child does not mean that one’s actions are in the best interests of the child or of the mother. While the actions of many men who “fight” for custody of and visitation with a child may cause the courts to say, “At least here’s a dad who wants to be with his children,” that does not automatically mean that he should be, even if he is sincere. He may be abusive or negligent in one form or another to the child. The mother may still be a better choice as a caregiver. There may be other motivations for the man’s actions. His actions may in fact be the actions of an abuser who, because of divorce, a restraining order, or some other means, no longer has physical access to his spouse, ex-spouse or girlfriend. The only way these men can continue to hurt the woman is by trying to take her child away from her, while alienating her from the child and drying up her financial resources through protracted court cases. The child is an object to them. A tool or weapon to be wielded against the child’s mother.   The purpose of this web site is multifold:   First, it is the intent of this web site to share information and opinions that will help others see that it is possible that the motivations for custody actions may not be as pure as believed, and that a completely different set of motivations could be the cause of the legal actions being brought for custody and visitation.   Secondly, this web site, through its news, articles, and stories, will present actions of men, allowing the reader to determine for themselves if being the biological father of a child is an instant guarantee that the actions of the man are in the best interest of the child.   And, finally, this web site will provide tools and links to information such as crime statistics, hard facts, that may be used to help educate others, whether they be friends, family members, community leaders, litigators, legislators, or the courts.